It's a Seriously Frightening Thing...

...when it turns out that:

• the love of your life belongs to the same church as your (soon-to-be-former) best friend's best friend from school;
• that he went to the same school as one of your former officemates (and you found out about that when aforementioned former officemate sent a request via Facebook);
• some of his friends have been snooping onto your Multiply page whenever you say something nice on any of his posts;
  
• his ahiya (older brother; kuya in Tagalog) was your former boss's former officemate (and still happens to be your ex-boss's wife's officemate); and
• you take one of those offbeat Facebook quizzes and it turns out you're the Monica to his Chandler.

Coincidence, perhaps? I don't really know.